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不包办代替,要让孩子学会自己拿主意
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不包办代替,要让孩子学会自己拿主意

不包办代替,要让孩子学会自己拿主意

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不包办代替,要让孩子学会自己拿主意

1.给孩子自己作决定的机会

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2.不要将自己的过往经验灌输给孩子

父母是孩子最早的教师,父母的言传身教对孩子的影响非常大。但很多父母在教育孩子时,往往只是直接灌输自己的过往经验,代替孩子回答问题,而不是启发孩子,让孩子在亲身实践中得出自己的答案[wuhan5858.com]。

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3.控制太多会影响孩子主动思考

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